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Last night, when I was walking home from Fitness First @ Menara MBf (formerly known as Wisma SPK) around 7 pm, a gym friend sent me a text message saying “Dude, when was the last time u cried?” I was really surprised with the message and replied “don’t know, i just can’t remember, but why?”. And after a few seconds he rang me back and told what was really happened.
Its ‘funny’ to hear a variety of reasons why some people cry. In some weird instances, in some unexpected moments, something would just come up and trigger some emotional distress. Just when u thought that everything is going on smoothly and life is all good, in a snap, past experiences just crawls into your head and totally change the way you look at life, at least for the moment.
Makes me really sad that in this world, no matter how good you try to be with every single human being around you, there will always be those who would take advantage of that kindness and hurt you and don’t even feel sorry for it. Bad!
Experience, they say, is the best teacher. I agree. And with those experiences, I learn. I should. Forgive me but i don’t think kindness should be given to everyone. Some people just don’t deserve it. Harsh but true. We just have to learn the art of ‘co existing’ with these people; and ensure that our kindness don’t get abused. Believe me, nothing is worse than realizing that some people just came knocking into your life for some selfish reasons. Ouch!
You’re spot on.
That is life. No matter how hard we try to avoid those kind of people, they will keep coming to us. But the most important thing we have to do is to stay true to ourselves and never let anyone bring us down. Being kind to others is good; but we have to ensure that the people we are being kind to, deserves it.
Never regret all the mistakes that we have done previously because those mistake makes us who and what we are right now. We learn and grow from it.
And it is indeed true that experience is the best teacher. If anyone ever denies it, he or she is just plain dumb.
I love this entry. It’s deep.
Me? Last two days.
me? last weekend.
u,ve been tag
when we cry we “insaf”
me…last nangis u tahu..kat ofis..hhhhhuuuuuaaarrrggg..maluuuuu
when we cry we “puas”
Oh, aku kerap menangis. Tambah lagi bila datangnya bulan penuh keberkatan ni. Jom menangis sama-sama. Hehe..
lovely entry.. hot that long, yet so true.. keep writing something like this, so inspirational..:) take care abg…
menangis ni bermusim. tiada siapa tahu bila saatnya tiba. tapi hadirnya membawa maksud. sebahagian dari rencah hidup.